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Facing Your ‘Other’

December 11, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal Leave a Comment

Facing Your ‘Other’

  When I mediate, I am sometimes struck by the fact that our lives can be profoundly affected by  the actions of others. It can be frustrating to think about our lives being out of our control. I am happier when I focus on what we can control — particularly our own thoughts, our attitudes, and our actions. Of course, change is difficult, but certainly possible. I have used my thoughts and actions at critical points to change the course … read more »

Filed Under: Families, Happiness, Mindfulness, Negotiation Tagged With: Empathy, Jacqui Lewis, mediation, Middle Collegiate Church, Revolutionary Love, Tolerance

The Power of Dignity

November 8, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal Leave a Comment

A few months ago, I had the pleasure of giving a Continuing Legal Education presentation on the Dignity Model with attorney-mediator colleagues Teresa Calabrese and Andrea Hirshman. Here is a clip from it, where I am talking about the concept that we ALWAYS have dignity — no one can take it away, no matter how badly they treat us. It is an important part of negotiation— you have to honor your own self-worth before you can honor that in others. … read more »

Filed Under: Happiness, Mindfulness Tagged With: Andrea Hirshman, Communication, Dignity, Donna Hicks, Mandela Consciousness, Teresa Calabrese

Just Listen

October 19, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal 1 Comment

Just Listen

I write this on my way back from a conference in Washington, DC for the Project for Integrating Spirituality, Law and Politics (PISLAP) entitled, “Fostering Human Connection in an Era of Alienation.” One workshop I attended there, led by John Spiegel and Judith M. Glasser — and based upon the work of Nancy Kline — was called “Souls in Action: Using ‘Generative Attention’ to Resolve Conflicts.” Their assertion is that attention is a creative act, and that we can help … read more »

Filed Under: Happiness Tagged With: John Spiegel, Law and Politics (PISLAP), listening, mediation, Nancy Kline, Project for Integrating Spirituality

R-E-S-P-E-C-T — Find Out What it Means to Me!

August 22, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal Leave a Comment

R-E-S-P-E-C-T — Find Out What it Means to Me!

I write this just days after the death of the infamous Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin. Hers was the voice of a generation — my generation — but she meant so much more. While it is difficult to imagine a world without her, I am grateful for her music, which will live on. From my perspective, Aretha’s most influential song was “Respect,” written by Otis Redding. As Wesley Morris wrote in her obituary, she turned the song — and the … read more »

Filed Under: Clients, Collaborative Process, Cultural Competence, Divorce, Happiness, Marriage, Mediation, Mindfulness, Negotiation, Nonviolence Tagged With: Aretha Franklin, Dignity, Donna Hicks, Respect

Families Belong Together

July 10, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal Leave a Comment

Families Belong Together

On June 30, I joined about 30,000 others in Foley Square in Manhattan to protest the detention of the over 2,300 children who have been ripped away from their parents at the southern US border — many of whom are under 10 years old. Some are housed in large tents, some in converted warehouses. Some are scattered thousands of miles away from their parents — to 17 states, including New York. Yet, these kids have done nothing wrong. Their parents, … read more »

Filed Under: Children, Families, Happiness Tagged With: Families Belong Together, Immigrant Children, Immigrant Detention Centers

Keep Your Enemies Closer

June 26, 2018 By Joy Rosenthal 4 Comments

Keep Your Enemies Closer

A few weeks ago, I wrote about the book, Dignity, by Donna Hicks. Today I am writing about another important book I’ve read recently, The Opposite of Hate: A Field Guide to Repairing Our Humanity, by Sally Kohn. Sally was my intern many years ago when she was in law school and she was funny, sometimes quirky, and wicked smart. She is a progressive lesbian feminist from Brooklyn, who is also a television commentator. She appeared often on Fox News, … read more »

Filed Under: Cultural Competence, Families, Happiness, Mindfulness Tagged With: Dignity, Donna Hicks, Empathy, Sally Kohn, The Opposite of Hate: A Field Guide to Repairing Our Humanity, understanding

Elder Mediation and Family Conversations

May 31, 2015 By Joy Rosenthal Leave a Comment

The New York Times ran an article about elder mediation and how it can be useful to adult siblings who are working together to take care of aging parents. Elder mediation can help sisters and brothers air out differences, understand each other,clarify their expectations, and approach each other with compassion so they can work together as a team.  This is one of the services we offer. As it happens, I just published an article on FamilyAffaires.com describing elder mediation and … read more »

Filed Under: Elder Mediation, Elder Mediation, Families, Happiness, Mediation Tagged With: compassion, elder mediation, family

Divorce Envy ~ Who knew?

July 21, 2014 By Andrew

I’m honored and excited that I was quoted in Amy Sohn’s Harper’s Bazaar’s article about Divorce Envy. It really is an honor.  And an interesting topic.  We feel the need to keep up with the Joneses to get the latest handbag, to do hot yoga and eat kale, why not to get divorced in the most healing way possible?  As I said, if it leads to a trend of collaborative process and divorce mediation, maybe peer pressure is a very … read more »

Filed Under: Collaborative Process, Divorce, Happiness, Mediation, Mindfulness Tagged With: children, collaborative process, compassion, custody, divorce, divorce mediation, family, mediation

Suddenly wealthy?

February 20, 2014 By Andrew

Once I lived the life of a millionaire, spending my money, I didn’t care I carried my friends out for a good time, buying bootleg liquor, champagne and wine … by Ida Cox & B Feldman, sung by Bessie Smith According to the NY Times, thanks to the thriftiness of depression-era parents, baby boomers are more likely to inherit great sums of money than previous generations. Some know to expect it, others do not.  What would you do if you … read more »

Filed Under: Estate Planning, Families, General, Happiness, Inheritance

Let Freedom Ring

August 27, 2013 By Andrew

Tomorrow is the 50th anniversary of the March on Washington in which the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. gave his magnificent “I Have a Dream” speech – one of most inspiring and important speeches in history.  In anticipation, I just read the full text of the speech again, and link to it here. There are some lines that we have heard over and again, and which we need to hear over and again.  But there are a few others … read more »

Filed Under: Cultural Competence, Happiness, Mindfulness, Negotiation, Nonviolence Tagged With: common ground, compassion, conflict, honesty, hope, inclusivity, nonviolence, understanding

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