I was recently quoted in the New York Times in an article about couples – particularly those with children – who continue to live near each other after they get divorced. While living near your ex is not for everyone, it can have its advantages. For instance, When the children forget something at the other parent’s home, it is no big deal to go get it. Parents don’t have to worry about pick up and drop offs. The children can go … read more »
Just published an article in Family Affaires to help you think about your money during divorce. Money can be a big stressor in a marriage, and is often one of the greatest sources of anxiety during a divorce, whether you are mediating, litigating or doing a collaborative process. These tips can help you get a handle on them so you know what you are working with! Here’s to a productive and fruitful 2016!
We are thrilled to announce the launch of our new spousal maintenance and child support calculator, created and updated by my ace paralegal, Andrew Boehmke, under the auspices of Rosenthal Law & Mediation. Not only does it include the provisions of the new New York State maintenance bill, but it also includes other features to make it more user friendly. This calculator, like the last one, includes the text of the actual statute if you click on the § sign … read more »
Last week, Governor Cuomo signed a bill that will soon overhaul the way spousal support is established for divorcing couples in New York State. The portions of the bill that deal with temporary spousal support will take effect on October 25, 2015, and the rest will take effect on January 23, 2016. This law establishes a standard for how permanent spousal maintenance is determined – before, maintenance was purely up to a judge’s discretion, and awards were inconsistent. A 2010 … read more »
Tonight I will be speaking with my dear friend and colleague, Teresa Calabrese, Esq., about planning for incapacity (wills, powers of attorney, health care proxies, etc.) at West Village Houses in Greenwich Village. Next month, another dear friend and colleague, Priscilla Prutzman, of the Creative Response to Conflict and I will do a workshop entitled “How Diversity Can Strengthen Your Practice” at the Association of Professional Divorce Mediators. Very exciting!
The New York Times’ Well Book Club is featuring an interesting book this month about Divorcing a Narcissist. The book, Will I Ever Be Free of You? by Karyl McBride. The Book Club’s There are some fascinating and heartfelt comments on the book club page. My 2 cents is that collaborative practice would be an excellent way to negotiate. What do you think? Have you divorced a narcissist?
One of the most important parts of the divorce process is figuring out how you and your ex will change your relationship from being romantic partners to being your children’s co-parents. And one of the primary tasks you will have as coparents is helping your children feel “at home” in both homes. This article explores that phenomenon, with some suggestions for things you can do to help children make the transition.
I have written about this before, and it is still true – same sex couples still need second parent adoptions even though they are legally married. New York’s Appellate Division Second Department made this clear their May 2015 decision, Matter of Paczkowski. The case is about a lesbian couple who was married and had a child together during the marriage. The non-biological mom had not adopted their child. The couple later broke up, and she filed for joint custody, arguing … read more »
The New York Times ran an article about elder mediation and how it can be useful to adult siblings who are working together to take care of aging parents. Elder mediation can help sisters and brothers air out differences, understand each other,clarify their expectations, and approach each other with compassion so they can work together as a team. This is one of the services we offer. As it happens, I just published an article on FamilyAffaires.com describing elder mediation and … read more »
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